Thursday, May 1, 2008
Monday, April 28, 2008
Breaking the surface
My best friend recently said to me that all the successful people in the world have one thing in common; they surround themselves with good people. It is so important to be around people who make you happy, people who challenge you to better your weaknesses and who accentuate those parts of your character that you admire the most. Real friends should make you feel like a better person for knowing them and you should do the same for them.
"Fate chooses your relations, you choose your friends."- Jacques Delille
Sunday, April 27, 2008
Thursday, April 24, 2008
My place
Some places just give you this feeling; like your at home even though your not. When you are in your place you feel like people look at you as one of their own and strangely you could visit 100 times and still get butterflies in your stomach just as the plane hits the ground. Ireland is like that for me. Now I understand for many people its just a rainy country full of pale people who drink too much beer, play funny instruments, and tend to their sheep. But to me it’s a land full of the most welcoming and charismatic people I have ever met, where the cab drivers want to know your life story and that of your mom’s best
friend’s aunt, for that matter. The landscapes are blankets of soft green patchwork and looking over one of the cliffs of Ireland’s harsh coast makes you feel as though you really are at the end of the earth. My passport has more than a few big green stamps in it these days but its okay because each visit there has been full of adventures and left me with special memories.
When my roommate Stacy told me a few weeks ago that she had never been, I immediately got online and searched for cheap flights to Dublin. I felt it would be selfish of me not to accompany her; I mean, someone had to do it right? : ) Anyway, we had a wonderful weekend full of brilliantly bad weather, friendly Irish cab drivers and lots of traditional irish music.
Until the next time!
Friday, April 11, 2008
Gravity Games
Money for mud?
So it just occurred to me that it is almost mid April; Do you know what that means? It means my time here in Madrid is nearing its end. Where in the world did the time go?! In the beginning, two years seemed like forever but forever will end in just a few short weeks. Upon my recent realization of time gone past I have begun to go through all of my photos-by the hundreds. The memories rushed right
back, clear as day; all of this reminiscing has made me a little sad, but more so it has inspired me to really take advantage of the little time that I have left in this city that has become my home. I have been making it a point to seek out any hidden corners of the city that have remained unseen and also to revisit all of my favorite spots just a few more times.
One of those favorite spots is Retiro park on Sunday afternoons.
There is nothing like it. I think all of Madrid’s creatures crawl out from under their rocks for the day just to make for top rate people watching; and some of the approaches that they use to entertain and gain a few extra euros are really... well, strange.
Some people cover themselves in mud and sit real still, while others break out into break dancing in the most awkward of places. Once in a while though, you will come across some real talent, someone that makes you stop in your tracks and take a seat on the ground. I often wonder how some of these artists could still be performing with a guitar case in front of them collecting, well -not enough- change; I have seen ten piece jazz bands,
quirky magicians and calming singer songwriters strumming away under the shade of a lonely tree. This past week end I photographed a Peruvian music group who’s pan pipes and spiritual vibes attracted a massive crowd of listeners. They commanded that patch of grass like it was a stadium of thousands. They cracked jokes and were full of energy but
more importantly their music set a mood. I am sure their guitar case did not leave empty.
Retiro is one of those places that is just so incredibly "European," so relaxed and romantic. Aw...I am really going to miss those Sunday afternoons at the park, and all of its creatures too!
Wednesday, April 2, 2008
Sunday, March 30, 2008
TOMA!
With all of Europe at my finger tips it can be all too easy to overlook everything that Madrid itself has to offer. I'm sure I could fill my
entire year's calender with fun things to do and interesting events to go to without ever even leaving this city. Today I went to a Senior Masters tennis tournament that was held only a few metro stops away from my apartment at the palacio de los deportes; it was my first time at the venue and I was blown away by how beautiful, modern and accommodating the facility was. We arrived a bit early so that we could have breakfast at a local café first and then wandered over to the stadium. ( I would like to add that waking up at 8:30am on a Sunday morning is no easy task for us twenty year olds) But it was well worth it, our seats were perfect, about five rows up right in the center of the base line.
First we watched the crazy antics of good old John McEnroe who never fails to put on a show and later we watched the finals between Jim Courier and Sergi Bruguera.
It was fun to watch these guys goof off a little. At one point Courier turned around to see who the obnoxious person was that was walking by the side of the court mid point only to find that it was two young girls no older than ten. With great charisma and a wonderful sense of humor he walked over, hoisted them both over onto the court and gave them each their own rackets. He and Bruguera went on to play a small game of doubles with the
young Spaniards for about five minutes before they returned to their nail biting match. There really is nothing better than watching people doing what they love; it always looks so simple, so natural, effortless really. I can only hope that one day I will get to make my living out of doing something that I love doing.
Oh I almost forgot the Spaniard won the tournament of course. Hmm maybe it was fixed.... but it made all those Spanish fans happy. Bruguera beat Courier after a good fight in the third set.
Above John McEnroe celebrates his third place victory.Friday, March 28, 2008
Mountain tops, Monkeys and Malaga: a.k.a. my spring break
When most people think of spring break they think of a wild week of beaches and bikinis
in Cancun. And though that type of vacation is certainly a week of crazy fun for the majority of college students mine was a bit different. I went down to the costa del sol where the sun is always shining,the view is always spectacular and your eyes are flooded with contrasting ocean and mountain landscapes. While there I went on a few day trips like one to Ronda where century old bridges and walls make the town one of a kind. In order to get there we had to drive over more than a few mountains where the frighteningly narrow and windy roads
tightly hugged the sides of the steep rocks. Over the past two years I have seen more beautiful views than I can count but what I saw that day from the car window of those mountains literally took my breath away. Maybe it was nerves but I got this feeling in my chest like I was actually on the top of the world. Once in Ronda we ate lunch on a terrace of an old castle like building that looked over the lush green fields that seemed to flow over the end of the earth. 
On another day we went to the rock of Gibraltar; if you don’t know, Gibraltar sits on the southern most tip of Spain but is actually part of the United Kingdom and the silhouette of its massive rock can be seen from a great distance. It was strange to simply walk across the border (after presenting our passports) to see signs in English, double decker buses and even those cute little red telephone booths that are typical of England. We took a tour in a minivan with a local tour guide
and walked through caves and WWII tunnels that exist within rock; and when we stepped out we could look across the water to see the northern coast of Africa. Monkeys (there just called apes) roamed freely and seemed to outnumber humans living in the area; despite a little bit of fear I let one of the apes sit on my shoulder just long enough for a photo or two. Though my spring break was rather calm it was just perfect! Cultural and eye opening, relaxing and sun filled, my week on the costa del sol is one that I will always remember.
Monday, March 24, 2008
Tuesday, March 11, 2008
Toledo
Tuesday, February 26, 2008
Granada
Tranquil souls lounge in the grass, with their
hippily-clad bodies oozing peace and love. The ambiance is warm and calm and aromas of leath
er and incense swirl through the air. It took almost two years for me to finally get there, but after much anticipation and countless great reviews I finally made the trek to the unique town known for its Moorish flair. While there, we toured the grand Alhambra and saw flamenco inside of a cave-like bar.
This was my very last Suffolk sponsored trip, but Granada was certainly a special and memorable last hurrah. 
Tuesday, February 19, 2008
Horseback
As much as I have grown to love city life, a day trip to rural Spain is always well needed. Last week a group of SUMC students took a bus to the outskirts of the city where we were enveloped in mountains and could hear the foreign sounds of running streams and the chirping of birds. Many students got the chance to ride horses while others
hiked through the paths and took in the fresh air. The day was perfect; I remember calling my mother just to tell her how beautiful the spot was and how I wished she could see the views that I witnessed that day. Sometimes we all need a little break from the wonderful, but busy, urban lifestyle.
Sunday, February 3, 2008
Elegantly Old
Recently, while sitting behind a café window, I peered out at the passing people as though I were looking through a fish bowl; All sorts of people swam by me; old and young, foreigners and native Spaniards alike, some with dread locks and some clad in classic suits. And while those young people with their eclectic styles and hairdos, beautiful features and most fashionable designer clothes are ever captivating, on this day it was the older generation that really got me thinking. One by one and two by two these older people, rich in years, passed by my window and I observed them to be "elegantly aged."
The ladies travel in packs arms entwined and, though they are often barely five feet tall, their heads are held high and proud with each hair in place and their makeup perfectly applied. Knee length skirts and dainty scarfs decorate their aged yet regal figures that are perched atop timeless and ladylike high heeled shoes. The men, though only out for a mid day stroll, do not hold back when it comes to dress either; top hats, and suits, ties and vests all adorn these frames as they amble down the narrow cobble stoned roads of Sol (city center).
I later began to wonder why the appearances of these older people caught my attention in the first place, why shouldn’t they look just as they do? And I thought about how that same generation looks in my own country; I realized that because such an emphasis is put on maintaining youth and avoiding age in the United States, it has become nearly impossible to age gracefully and with pride. At home our seniors, all too often, seem to take one of two paths as they get older; either they accept the role of being "old" and give up on taking pride in their appearances or they try to look twenty years younger than they are. "Older" and "attractive" are simply two adjectives that, in America, we rarely put together; however, in observing the elders in Spain those are the two very adjectives that frequently jump into my mind.
I think this senior group of Spaniards has got something figured out. They walk proudly and briskly (might I add) looking their age while maintainging class and elegance. They have not been defeated by their age but rather, they have embraced it; these tasteful men and women are making sixty, seventy and even eighty-something look pretty damn good!
Saturday, January 26, 2008
Friday, January 25, 2008
Southern Flavor
first day of school? That anxiety that could only be compared to what came over you during your most magical of Christmas eves. Those nights always left me unable to fall asleep because, despite my best efforts, I was unable to get away from my own thoughts and would end up spending hours staring at the details of my bedroom ceiling. Unfortunately, however, the number of days that we get to feel those uncomfortable butterflies in our stomachs decrease as we become older and less easily amused. However, since I have been in Spain, I find myself having those excited and sleepless nights more than ever. At Suffolk Madrid each semester brings a new group of kids and each group seems to form its own unique magic once we are thrown together
in a new and exotic setting; in anticipation of each new semester I wonder; who will I meet? Where will I travel to? And what adventures will I take part in over the coming months? Each new semester commences with a week long orientation week during which the new group of kids are to form the next era of Suffolk Madrid. While for the fall orientation we went to Asturias in the North, our most recent semester kick off took place in Sevilla. Sevilla is the prized city of Spain’s southern Andalusian region and is full of life, warmth and romance. On our week long orientation in the south of Spain we got to know each other and bonded over flamenco dancing, safari rides and walks on the southern coast of Cadiz. My four orientation weeks here at Suffolk Madrid have been some of the very best times of my life; and though it is sad to think that my week in Sevilla was my very last it sure was an unforgettable one!
Monday, December 3, 2007
Me, Myself and I

Thursday, November 29, 2007
Luck of the Irish
This past week end I was reunited with my Mom and sister Lindsey in Ireland and we took a trip cross country from Dublin City to the Galway bay. During our journey we stopped at the Cliffs of Moher, where carpets of clovers line the pathways to the rugged Irish coast. Despite our searching we never did see any leprechauns or pots of gold, but my Mom did find this vivid four leaf clover during our visit to the cliffs.When Paths Cross
In some families everyone seems to follow in the same footsteps; somehow they share the same passions, like the same kind of people and end up studying at the same universities. For those families, that works perfectly well, but for others each person chooses to carve a new and unexplored path. I am the baby of four and I have grown up learning from, admiring and observing my three older and
very distinct siblings. And when I analyze my own personality it is apparent that I have copied and pasted bits and pieces of each them into the document that is me. This is partly subconscious but also because, like most younger siblings, I have adopted those characteristics and mimicked the actions that my older and more experienced brothers and sisters have already tested on the world. There are certainly some mistakes that we all have to make on our own; but once in a while we get the opportunity to learn from mistakes of others without having to personally suffer the consequences. That is the beauty of being the youngest in a clan.
I often wonder how four people raised in the same home by the same two people can turn out so differently, display such varied passions and talents and take such different paths in life. Most likely the fact that my siblings and I were born over a span of sixteen years has something to do with our broad range of interests; there have been times when I wished that we were more similar because maybe it would make everything easier. Other times I wished that we were closer in age and that we had more opportunities to go through
life's experiences simultaneously. But recently, I have not only come to terms with our generational gaps but I have learned to appreciate them. There is something special about each of us being in a different physical and emotional place in our lives; my brother has given me a sneak peak at the world of being a married parent, and my experience in Spain has allowed him to reminisce about his own travels through Europe. My sisters have shown me the joys and struggles of being working women in their twenties; and if I were not here in Europe my sister, who previously had little interest in travel, might never have ventured over the Atlantic this past week end to meet me and experience the "forty shades of green" that flow over Ireland’s lush landscape.
I am realizing that though each of us are carving our own paths and exploring different fields, and even though our decisions may seem so independent from each others lives, they are not independent at all. Katie’s paths have influenced Lindsey’s, and John’s choices have altered and inspired mine. Our diverse backgrounds, and array of interests do not, and will not keep us apart but they make us more interesting and well rounded people for having each other's lives to dabble in and learn from.
Thursday, November 15, 2007
Open House
Above, are two of our friendly staff members who greeted open house visitors at our Madrid campus.

A few current SUMC students share their experiences.
Monday, November 5, 2007
Swissness
The leaves glistened like shiny pennies dangling from trees, and there was a sweet aroma of crepes and chocolate that drifted through the crisp air. As we ambled up and down the winding and rather quiet, streets of Geneva my
roommate Stacy and I could describe the Swiss city in only one word, "precious." A feeling came over us like we had been dropped into some fairy tale wonderland where everyone smiled and said Bonjour at any chance they got. A lake filled with beautiful white swans and reflections of the surrounding architecture was plopped right in the middle of the city, allowing us to feel at one with nature while simultaneously being immersed in Geneva’s bustling center. We stayed in a small bed and breakfast owned and run by an old couple who couldn't have been more lovable. They showered us with smiles and boisterous laughs and we woke up each morning to the permeating smells of Swiss hot chocolate and warm flaky croissants. On our first day we took a boat tour around the lake where we relaxed bundled in our winter layers, and where the sun warmed our faces despite the briskness of Switzerland’s November air.
ir charm and warm ambiance. Each day Stacy and I found ourselves full when we realized that we had stopped three times within the past two hours, each time forcing ourselves to eat yet another pastry, just so that we could spend a moment in the adorable eateries that lined every street. On our last morning we took a short bus ride to the outskirts of the city where we then walked on foot over the French border. We followed the signs through a tiny French village leading us to a gondola that would bring us to the top of Le Monte Saleve. Clear weather would have been preferable but the clouds that filled the sky that morning made for a mystical trek through the paths that were etched into the top of the mountain.
water fountain and it is the site of the United Nations headquarters. It is a town overflowing with cultures and languages and most notable to me was its charming character. I found the people of Geneva to be overwhelmingly kind, welcoming, and respectable. This trip to Switzerland, for me, was one of those visits when you head back to the airport and think, "I will be coming back to this place." It was a trip that was inspiring and fulfilling and one that reminded me of what my love for travel is all about. Monday, October 29, 2007
Beauty Lines
A few friends and I found this woman, all four feet of her, basking in the sun at an outdoor cafe. I got the impression that she would sit there in that same sunny spot every day, since the waiters seemed to treat her as part of the furniture. I also don't believe sun block is, nor was it ever, a part of her repertoire before
beginning her daily baking session.
She sat there fiddling with her few small belongings that she kept in a weather worn plastic shopping bag; over and over again, with her pale bony fingers she would take her things out, drop them under her seat and place them back into the tired plastic satchel that she treated like a designer purse. Her actions and appearance were those of a a frail old lady that had, quite frankly, lost her marbles; she was lathered in lost and found apparel and she had a collection of rings and shawls that garnished her tiny frame. But little did we know that once she was spoken to this ancient looking woman could go on for hours cracking juvenile jokes. She told personal tales, some that were believable and others that seemed more like fantasies that she had convinced herself really happened; nonetheless she went on, and we listened.
One of the best parts about coming across a new place is coming across new people. Whether they are wacky or captivating, intelligent or witty, they each leave impressions on us, their own special beauty marks.
Sunday, October 21, 2007
Cafe
Saturday, October 20, 2007
When I Grow Up!
world," and we are no longer under the guise of being students, spending each and every day studying and exploring in order to make ourselves more interesting and desirable will no longer be adequate. We will have jobs, responsibilities and maybe families; for many of us, those imaginary friends we had throughout college named Student Loans, will finally become real companions.But until then we can say, I will do this, I will live there, and will care about those things, when I grow up. But what exactly does growing up consist of? When does it happen? Does a fairy come on one special night and certify us as adults? Like many others my age, I look at my parents and I wonder, when did they learn all that stuff? Do we wake up one morning and suddenly know everything that goes into buying a house, filing taxes, raising a family, and saving for retirement?
I am realizing that this time in my life, a few weeks shy of my twentieth birthday, is one that sparks a flurry of emotions, questions and realizations. Five years ago I was being driven to lacrosse practice and to the movies and looking forward to my very first formal dance; fast forward five years and society's expectations would replace lacrosse practice with a career and dances for weddings at which
the bride is my own age. Realizing that I can vividly remember the red dress that I wore to my freshman semi-formal, and specific muddy moments during lacrosse practice at fifteen years old, it has occurred to me that the next five years will go by just as quickly as those past five did. And that, is scary!I don’t have the answers and maybe I never will; I don’t know when I will consider myself grown up, or if that ever really happens. I don’t know exactly who I will be in twenty years or how adults seem to know all that grown up stuff. What I do know is that time really does fly! Being twenty is the time to enjoy the simplicity in life, it is a strange period when a person is praised for enhancing themselves, and imaginary friends remain imaginary, but this time is unique and even limited . Those people living in the simplest of times, are most likely, not entirely independent; but ironically the independence a twenty year old student can revel in is unparalleled, for that reason it shouldn’t be rushed nor should it be taken for granted.
"There are some kind of men who are so busy worrying about the next life, they've never learned to live in this one."
-To Kill a Mockingbird
Sunday, October 14, 2007
Dancing Shoes
As a little girl I remember going to dance class each week. I went through the common phases of obsession with each of the many genres that are typically taught to us young American girls; first it was ballet, then jazz, and after the novelty of the dainty pink slippers and the lace up, jazz shoes wore off, it was, of course, time to take up tap dancing. Later, not only because I looked the part with curly red locks and a face full of freckles, I dabbled in the art of Irish step for a year or two, where I accumulated a few more pairs of slippers to add to my collection. But the time eventually came to hang up my various, and rather costly, pairs of dancing shoes. I left behind those days of practicing routines and anticipating the costume theme for my next dance recital. And even though my own dancing never progressed to a particularly advanced level, I have remained a fan of the many different styles of dance; always jumping at any opportunity to see shows like Stomp, the ballet, the Riverdance, or various Broadway shows.
Here in Spain, my admiration for personal expression through dance continues; I love how it can evoke emotion and even tell stories; and I think that is important since we often underestimate how powerful non verbal communication can be. In Spain the most widely recognized dance is flamenco. ( Not to be mistaken with what so many tourists like to call "flamingo," this dance has absolutely no connection with tall pink birds.) I have had the opportunity to see flamenco on multiple occasions in different parts of the country, and if I were to describe the art in one word it would be, INTENSE! The dancers exude passion, seduction, and sense of struggle. It is certainly not the most light hearted dance, and unlike the girls in my tap recitals, the dancers do not hold a cheesy grin on their faces. Instead, they hold intensity in their eyes and reach out to the audience with each glance. They tell stories using their strong bodies and erotic hands; their stomping feet are bold and their demeanor is stern. The costumes are often traditional with polka dots and vibrant reds but they are unique to each dancer, helping to define every vivid movement put forth on stage.
For anyone used to smiley performances with happy endings and feel good lyrics, flamenco may be an acquired taste, for this dance displays none of the above. However it will not fail to draw you in with its unique flavor that is tragic yet beautiful. Flamenco dancers display raw emotion which can make onlookers feel anything from uneasy to inspired; but either way a good session of flamenco is sure to be a moving, entertaining, and enlightening experience, and it is the perfect event for a low key night out in Espana that will make you want to strap on your old dancing shoes!
Sunday, October 7, 2007
Saturday, October 6, 2007
Fall Hiking Trip
Wednesday, October 3, 2007
The Exotic Side

























